Things have been so crazy after the break up with me and Chris. I finally had enough of his broken promises and the issue with his zipper. I realized I needed something better. Someone that was going to treat me like I treated them. And apparently Chris wasn't going to do that. He never could decide if he really wanted to be with me or only when it suited him. I can't deal with that and after three years I finally had enough and brought it to an end.
I know that Chris was probably shocked that I had finally had reached my stopping point and I know that most likely his feeling were hurt even though I tried really hard not to hurt him anymore than I had to. Because when you break up someone always get hurt. I even tried to continued trying to be friends with him since I have known him for nearly 15 years. But, apparently doing that was only something he wanted to do when it benefited him. And that is not right. And the moment he thought that I was seeing someone else, which I wasn't yet. I had just met someone that we were just hanging out he wanted to know if that was my new play thing and such. Why? Because Chris wanted to know if I wanted to play around with him that night and when I told him no he wanted to get ugly.
All I got to say to all the misery that he tried to cause me and provoke me and so on is that I could have pressed harrassment charges on you-was told I could have all the emails, text messages and so on. And maybe I am jus too nice but I didn't want to go there. Maybe a part of me was still hoping to save a friend that had such a long history. But, apparently Chris didn't unless he felt like he could get something out of it. And I still say that it was pretty crappy for him to involve my ex husband which then envolved my kids knowing the history there. But, I guess that Chris didn't care. Three years of dealing with the lies, the deciet and putting myself after him did nothing but cause me misery that I feel like I didn't deserve.
And about the stuff that I supposely kept due to the fact that I supposely felt like I needed to keep it. You gave me that stuff. You relinquished your claim to it when you sent the text message that stated "Anything of mine that you find just throw it away-I will replace it." Plus, you didn't pay your share of the bills for the month that you were still living there. So your court suit won't do you any good.
In the end of all of this, I feel sorry for Chris. Because he will never truely understand what true love is. To be loved for ones self instead of things that they have. I loved him that way. I didn't care that we didn't have this or that. I just wanted to be with him and he with me. But, I wasn't enough. I was never enough. I gave and gave until I couldn't give no more. It didn't matter how much income I had coming in, from my daughter's social security, child support, food stamps or whatever, even my birthday money that my mom sent me that all went to help support me and my two kids- it was never enough.
So Chris, if you happen to read this. I wish you enough. I wish you enough happiness, and I wish you enough love, I hope and pray that you find what you are looking for in life. You can be so much more in life if you only choose to be. I am sorry that you are miserable. I have come to learn that about you. Until you learn to be happy with who you are, and forgive yourself for your mistakes, and learn to be happy for what you have no matter how small, you will never know true happiness.